Posts tagged separation
Showing UP for Sophia: Money Matters

Sharing helps me process this new reality, and quite frankly, it leaves a record of what I know to be true. I do my best to share my truths, my perspectives, as I can only assume why others do what they do and choose not to look like an ass in doing so. Been there, done plenty of that. Case in point, today’s entry. John has defended that I assumed his actions or lack thereof. Perhaps. Or perhaps life is the one who said, “Nah, people aren’t here for that, they’re here for this.”

I tried to play it safe, but facts have a way of turning my stories into fairy-tales.

Awww… y’all are getting along? That’s great.

What happens when you don’t?

How do you deal when shit gets real?

Not good.

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Showing UP for Sophia: Separate Ways

A friend checked in with me asking if John and I had talked. We had. We came to a compromise. She asked if I was happy with the plan.

I’m not happy, but… I know it needs to happen. I know we need to be the trusted adults Sophia needs. We need to show up for her. It’s not about us, beyond how our co-parenting will impact her life.

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